Sunday, August 17, 2008

Double Wave

I grew up ( as much as I did) in an apartment house in Jackson Heights, New York. Whenever I left the house, my mother would kiss me good bye at the door, then head to the window of our fourth floor apartment, to wave good bye to me as I left the building.

As a young child, my responding waves were cheerful, enthusiastic, appreciative.

As I grew older, my responses became less so.

Suffering from the malaise that is teenage adolescence, my responses deteriorated to half hearted and, unfortunately, half assed.


No more.


When my boys, my buddies, my pals, Miles and Landon, leave the house these days, I respond with some cheerful and hopefully endearing variation of a "double wave." I enthusiastically wave both arms to elicit smiles and laughter.





One arm wave is for my grandsons.





The other is for my Mom.





Happy Birthday, Grandma. Keep smiling.

6 comments:

  1. That made my day! I hope it will also remind me what is important in this too rushed world.
    Thank you.

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  2. God Bless you Jim and Happy Birthday Mom..

    Love, Mema

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  3. Who is thanking me from this too rushed world? Announce yourself, anonymous one!

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  4. I can't think of a better reason to enjoy some cake tonight. Happy birthday, Grandma!

    -A

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  5. Nice one, Jim. Very.

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  6. Can't we get a video of the double wave??

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